unless you do something

When we were in New Orleans in November, nearly every conversation included -- if it wasn't just started with -- the telling of the 'getaway' tale:

How long did you wait to leave?
Who went with you?
Where did you end up?
How did you find everyone later?
Where are you staying?
When will you come back?

As have most major networks, MSNBC has created extensive online coverage of the aftermath and recovery from the hurricanes. One feature is the ongoing relationship with six different people ... hearing from them every few months.

Today I clicked in on Maxine Harris, from Westwego LA. The update mentions that she was the one who orchestrated her family's evacuation ... another common story: one person, usually the 'matriarch,' who gave everyone instructions and made sure everyone was tended to and accounted for.

Obviously the best news is that their family is safe ... more good news is that the check (however delayed) is finally in the mail ... and the wisdom Mrs. Harris offers comes from her situation, and speaks to each of us, wherever we struggle --

career focus ...
renewed relationships ...
healthy habits ...
rebuilding home and livelihood ...

"I guess our lives would stay on hold unless you do something about it."